Mrs Lighty’s Blogger Recognition Award

Recently I had a lovely little notification pop up on Twitter to say that Nicole from Tales from Mamaville had nominated me for the Blogger Recognition Award. It’s a little award post that’s doing the rounds in the blogosphere to recognise fellow bloggers who you enjoy reading, with a view to getting to know a little bit more about why our favourite blogs started up. It’s also a way of more established bloggers to give some advice to newbie bloggers. A massive thank you therefore to Nicole! It was lovely to see the notification on my Twitter feed, and it’s an honour to think that another blogger may want to read about the humble origins of All Things Spliced. This is what the blogger recognition award is all about:

The Blogger Recognition Award: The Rules

1. Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
2. Write a post to show your award.
3. Give a brief story of how your blog started.
4. Give two pieces of advice to new bloggers.
5. Select 15 other bloggers you want to give this award to.
6. Comment on each blog and let them know you have nominated them and provide the link to the post you created.

Blogger Recognition Award

How All Things Spliced started:

If you’ve followed All Things Spliced for a while, or if you read my bloggy first birthday post, you may already know how my blog started. Forgive me therefore if I’m repeating myself!

Just shy of two years ago, when Baby Lighty was a newborn and Mrs Lighty was a nervous wreck, a little idea started rumbling around my brain. During those long, long hours of breastfeeding and night feeds, I’d trawl Twitter and started to read plenty of mummy blogs. The more I read, the more I thought: why not add to the full time job that is having a newborn, and start writing a blog of my very own?

The market was absolutely saturated with mummy blogs when this idea started forming in my mind, and I wondered whether to bother. But then I started to think that actually, I didn’t want to forget aspects of new mummyhood. More than this, I was a completely anxious new mum. I wanted something that I could look back on and see how far I’d come.

I’d written An Answer on a Postcard, my travel blog, for some years so I knew the very basics about blogging. Randomly, I’d also registered All Things Spliced with six years ago, when Mr Lighty and I were first married, with a view to writing about being newlyweds and, well, all things spliced. This all led to one naptime when I logged into WordPress and All Things Spliced was born (again).

At the beginning, I never actually intended my new blog to be read. It was meant as a treasury of memories for Baby Lighty and I. But then I got brave over a cuppa one naptime, and shared my blog with the world (aka, Facebook). And the rest, as they say, is history!

Mrs Lighty’s Blogging Advice:

I feel slightly underqualified to give blogging advice, as I often still feel like a complete dunce novice myself. However, I imagine that if I was talking to one of my friends about starting a blog, I would say:

It’s not all about the writing…

Ok, so a big part of it is about the writing. Of course it is. Creating great content will always be king. But there’s so. much. more. to. it.

I’ve been known to moan talk about everything that goes hand in hand with blogging before. In my opinion, the writing is the easiest part (although having writer’s block is terrible!). It’s all of the photo taking, and photo editing, and promotion on social media, and making sure that your Instagram looks consistent across your whole profile so that people want to spend time there, and blog reading, and linky joining, and linky hosting, and engagement, and interaction…as well as the likes of DA, SEO, Klout scores, media packs and themes, etc, etc, that go with the writing that takes the time (and often, patience).

Of course, there are far, far worse things that I could be doing, and I really shouldn’t complain. But if you are able to produce great content, then you’ll want it to be read. And promotion is the key to that, alongside all of the other bits and pieces. So definitely just give it a go, but know that it will take a certain amount of dedication.

Go Self Hosted ASAP

Now, I’m not the best person to ask about self hosting. Or even what self hosting is, if I’m entirely honest. I do, however, have a handy (ahem!) guide here. But now that I am self hosted, I do wonder what I was dithering over for all of those months. Plus, if I’d gone self hosted sooner, that DA that I mentioned above might now be higher…

If it sounds like I’m speaking another language with all of the above, I apologise. But if you’re going to get into blogging and take it seriously, you’ll soon be thrown headfirst into this strange world and you’ll see for yourself!! Don’t be daunted and let it put you off, you’ll soon learn. And I still can’t believe some of the opportunities that have come my way because of the blog. I even put it on my CV when I applied for my current job! So go for it, and see where blogging takes you.

And now onto my nominations…

I know I’m supposed to nominate 15 bloggers, but I’m really late to the Blogger Recognition Award party (I was probably too busy trying to decide what dress to wear to the ceremony!!), so I’m just going to nominate the following lovely bloggers:

Thank you once again to Nicole at Tales from Mamaville for the kind nomination! I know I’ve probably given the most useless advice above to new bloggers (sorry!) but the best thing anyone can do, when it comes to blogging or otherwise, is just to go for it!

If you enjoy reading All Things Spliced, I would be completely chuffed if you could nominate Mrs Lighty in Reader’s Choice category of the BiB Awards! Please click on the badge below and complete the form, my full web address is and my Twitter handle is: @MrsLighty. I will love you forever and will send (virtual gluten free) cake!


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12 thoughts on “Mrs Lighty’s Blogger Recognition Award”

    1. I definitely feel like it was a good move now, looking back. Although the actual process of going self-hosted was a bit nerve wracking!! My blog post on going self-hosted is not the most helpful I’m afraid, but I have linked to some helpful ones at the end!!

    1. I must admit, at first I thought it wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be, but now I’m quite enjoying the freedom of being SH!

  1. You know I’m your biggest fan lovely and I’m always totally in awe of how stunning your page looks. You write so naturally and I can always 100% relate to your posts. Thanks for the nomination – I’ll get cracking asap! ? x

    1. Ah thank you so much! I don’t think my page looks stunning in the slightest…that’s what working for a Creative Agency will do for you, ha!! Looking forward to reading your post!

  2. Love this post, lots of very helpful advice here, I’m not sure what else I can add! Thank you for the nomination, I shall get my thinking cap on and hopefully write an equally as helpful post….failing that, I’ll just write “ditto Mrs Lighty….” #coolmumclub

    1. Haha!! Helpful advice?! Me? Who was it that linked to who’s post when it came to going self hosted?! I’ll look forward to reading yours 🙂 #coolmumclub

  3. It feels like you have been around longer than a year! Keep doing what you’re doing and who knows where it will take you 😉
    Thanks for sharing with #coolmumclub

    1. I’m just coming up to my second year – July is my bloggy birthday! Thanks so much for hosting #coolmumclub!

  4. Good to hear all about how you got started and yes, I thought you were around for longer than a year! Did have a chuckle about the self-hosted section as that for me was a bit of a pain! Well done, your blog is looking great! #CoolMumClub xx

    1. I’m just coming up to my second year – did I write a year in this blog?! Must’ve been having a Mummy Moment!! Thank you, there’s still so much I want to do on it, but I think just like renovating a house, that will take time!! #coolmumclub

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