Babywearing and Going Buggy Free

If you’ve been around these parts for a while, you’ll know that Mrs Lighty is a tad obsessed with babywearing. We were converted to babywearing very early on, when the lovely Becky of Incredible Isla lent us her beloved Connecta to try, and we haven’t looked back since. It’s something that both Mr Lighty and I feel quite confident about now, and it’s also something which all three of us, Baby Lighty included, love. However, this didn’t stop us from having our doubts over whether we could go buggy free for a whole weekend. Indeed, what about going buggy free for a whole week?!!

We’ve recently been lucky enough to have had two holidays, one to Cornwall, and one to Bouillon in Belgium. And let’s face it, we were always going to pack a ridiculous amount of crap really useful things we’d definitely need. Which is why, as we sat packing up the car for our first road trip of the summer, we debated whether to be bold and go completely buggy free. And so we did. One less piece of crap really useful thing to put in the car, after all.

As it turned out, both of our destinations this summer were rather hilly. We knew Cornwall would be, as we’d been there before, but Bouillon turned out to be the same. I feel that this point kind of justified our decision to go buggy free on each occasion, with no buggy to manoeuvre up the steep hills!! But how did we get on? Well, here are the pros and cons of a buggy free holiday:

Pros:
  • We saved a massive amount of space in the car! For once, the car wasn’t packed to the rafters. This always makes the journey a little more comfortable!
  • Both Mr Lighty and I felt that wearing Baby Lighty was an easier option than pushing him in a buggy up the hills. If you’ve ever been to Carbis Bay or Sennen Cove in Cornwall, rest assured that the hills in Bouillon are of a similar gradient!
Babywearing and going Buggy Free

Negotiating the hills of Cornwall with the sling!

  • We had our hands free, which is always helpful when paying for tickets or reaching for your camera.
  • We were able to get to places which aren’t accessible to the buggy. Visiting a National Trust property, for example, is a lot easier when you don’t have to worry about lugging a buggy upstairs or leaving it unattended downstairs. Having Baby Lighty in the sling is a much nicer way to visit!
  • In a weird way, using the sling often encourages Baby Lighty to walk more. I know, I know, this goes against the myth that carried children are often thought to be lazier children. But if we’d had the buggy, he would have wanted to get in and out all the time. Yet he knows that once we put him in the sling, he’s likely to be in it for a while. This means that at the zoo and castle in Bouillon, for example, he would walk the majority of the visit, and we’d only pop him in the sling to get to and from our destination.
  • The closeness you feel when wearing Baby Lighty often feels like another way in which we experience the holiday through his eyes. We loved pointing things out to him while he was in the sling and having conversations with him about what we were doing.
Cons:
  • Having the buggy is useful for loading all of your bags on if you’re headed to the beach, for example. However, I do think that by using the sling, we’re more inclined to pack light for days out!
  • When we were in Belgium, it was rather hot!! I can appreciate that in some hotter climates, you may not feel comfortable or safe babywearing.

I have to admit, in advance of going buggy free, the only thing that we were particularly worried about was naptimes. We didn’t think it would be so much of a problem being buggy free in Cornwall, purely because we knew we’d be doing a fair amount of travelling by car, and Baby Lighty would therefore be able to sleep during the car journeys. However, we were worried about Bouillon. We’d planned for all of our visits there be taken on foot. Would this mean that Baby Lighty would have less opportunity to nap? In actual fact, we needn’t’ve worried. Baby Lighty did actually take naps in his sling while we were away. At one point we even managed to stop for a drink in a lovely little bar we found with him soundo on Mr Lighty!

Babywearing and going Buggy Free

Sling snuggles!


We were really pleasantly surprised by our experience of going buggy free. Indeed, at the end of both weekends, we remarked that we really hadn’t missed the buggy at all. If you’re an experienced or confident babywearer, it’s definitely something to think about. I know us Lightys are slightly biased towards babywearing, but I’d definitely recommend going buggy free!

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9 thoughts on “Babywearing and Going Buggy Free”

  1. Well done you! I remember taking Miss. D to Paris for a day when she was 6 months old. Wish I’d had a sling, Paris with a buggy was a nightmare. Of course now she is 14 years old and reluctant to use her legs unless she has to 😉 #coolmumclub

    1. Haha, I’ve got the teenage years yet to come! We loved using our sling I must admit, although I know it’s not for everyone. Works for us though, and that’s what parenting is all about, isn’t it? 🙂 #coolmumclub

  2. I’m travelling a lot in Africa and often use a wrap, I’m obsessed with trying out different knots. The way Kenyans and Ethiopians tie are so different. I also have an Ergo. I do miss loading the buggy but I feel more streamlined and able to dash and go to places I couldn’t go with a buggy. I do use the buggy sometimes and to locals it’s bizarre. Both are cool and we have robust Quinny but I’m a carrier really. #coolmumclub

    1. Yes exactly, it depends on the situation doesn’t it? We also use our buggy, probably about 50% of the time at home. We just didn’t really want to take another piece of baby equipment in the car to be honest, haha!! I’d love to be able to wrap, it looks so elegant! #coolmumclub

  3. Yeah! I love the freedom of baby wearing but I agree not having the buggy to load all your things on can be a massive drawback. I’m betting you’ll be in pretty good shape after all of that! Thanks for linking up to #coolmumclub lovely xoxo

    1. I have to admit the hills were hard going!! But then I guess they would have been with the buggy too. Thanks for having me at #coolmumclub! xxx

  4. I miss my babywearing days desperately – my 2-year-old is getting too big for one now and wouldn’t get into one anyway. She doesn’t really use a buggy, so either she walks REALLY slowly or I end up picking her up – bad news for my back! #dreamteam

  5. We have finally done away with our pushchair in exchange for a scooter and I have to admit that I don’t miss it one bit! Love that gorgeous pic of Daddy Lighty and Little Lighty having snuggles Nic xx

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